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:: Saturday, April 22, 2017 ::

Yes, I do not post here often anymore. Weird how things have changed.

Anyway, the last thing I posted here was Gary being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.

A few days later, they told him he had bone marrow cancer and his doctors left him to die in the hospital bed. The nurses were wonderful and let my mother stay with him the whole time.

I did get to say goodbye to him while he was still lucid even when in horrible pain. He had me come over to him and told me he loved me. I replied, "I love you, Dad", and he gave me the biggest smile. I had never called him Dad before - he had always been Gary and always will be Gary to me. Gary equals Dad.

Gary lost his battle with liver, pancreatic and bone marrow cancer September 30, 2016, early in the morning.

This is the beautiful sunrise God made to welcome Gary home! I bet it was even more beautiful from the Other Side!

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:: Saturday, September 24, 2016 ::

Here is what we know now that the oncologist got back the various results.

My mother's husband Gary has Stage four pancreatic cancer with lots of small areas scattered throughout his body.

Gary went into the hospital early this past week to have an operation for spinal (lumbar) stenosis. The pre-op scans showed dark areas. They did a liver biopsy and blood work. The blood work showed a strong cancer marker. There is no cure, only ways to try to hinder it for a while.

The oncologist said that since Gary is so weak from the spinal stenosis, he suggested Gary get that operation first, go through rehab and work to be strong enough so the chemo does not debilitate him a lot.

Not going for the operation would mean Gary would be made comfortable and give him the best quality of life possible for the four months he would have left.

Having the operation could give him the chance to live between 12 and 15 months, if the operation and rehab can get him strong enough to start chemo.

The oncologist was going to go contact the spine surgeon and let him know Gary wanted the surgery. The surgeon was supposed to come by Friday morning but did not stop by at all. I called him late Friday night, woke him up and asked him when he was going to visit Gary so we could discuss the surgery. He will be by Saturday. The oncologist wants him to have the surgery ASAP so it may happen early next week.

I pretty much am going to be demanding the surgery because it will raise Gary's quality of life by not being in so much back pain and giving him control of his legs again.

Gary is currently very upbeat about everything, mostly because he now knows what is going on. Before, he had no answers. While the answer is grim, he seems ready to fight as hard as he can.

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old fart & genuine geezer

Overall Obsession:
the love of my soul & heart, my koibito, Crockett
(aka Stoopid Rat)

Latest Obsessions:
Gravitation yaoi fanfic & fanart

my Wacom tablet

drawing oekaki

Saiyuki

Ai no Kusabi (yaoiX100)

Yami no Matsuei

ZechsXDuo Gundam Wing yaoi

Dragonball Z

Profession:
Instigator & troublemaker

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Thanks:
--> to Lia, my sensei, who has inspired me to draw again. I wouldn't be doing this without your support, Domo Arigato!

--> to Talon, for sending me her fabulous fics, inspiring me with her writing to draw my first illustration for a story and actually liking what I drew.

--> to Dasia, for her words of encouragement when drawing her original chara.

--> to Joules, a wonderful epic fic writer, for liking my art enough to want to post them with Talon's and her own stories.

--> to Lutra, the other half of the epic team, for being so supportive.

--> to Jacque' & Becca Raddittzu, we met on eBay as bidder and sellers and now we are face-to-face friends. You showed us the real DBZ with your fansubs. It's all your fault the house is full of doujinshi! *LOL*

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